The Four Agreements
Conversation with Gemini
The book The Four Agreements can you write some key points to help guide and teach children aged 8 to 10 year olds.
Here are some key points from The Four Agreements, adapted to help guide and teach children aged 8 to 10:
1. Be Kind With Your Words:
This agreement is like using your superpower of speech for good! It means using your words to be honest and truthful, just like how you wouldn't want someone to lie to you.
It also means using your words to be kind. Names and teasing can hurt, so choose words that make you and others feel good.
Remember, sometimes words can be tricky. If you're unsure if something is kind to say, it's always best to keep it to yourself.
2. Don't Let Things Get to You:
Imagine words and actions like bouncing balls. If someone throws a mean word at you, it's like throwing a bouncy ball. You don't have to catch it! Let it bounce off you and don't take it personally.
The mean words come from their own thoughts and feelings, not yours. It's like they're wearing grumpy glasses and everything looks bad to them.
If someone is being really mean, it's okay to walk away and tell a trusted grown-up.
3. Ask Questions, Don't Guess:
Sometimes misunderstandings happen because we guess what someone is thinking or feeling. This can lead to fights!
This agreement is like being a detective. If you're unsure about something, use your detective skills and ask questions! Find out what someone really meant before you react.
Talking things out and asking for clarification can help avoid hurt feelings and make friendships stronger.
4. Always Try Your Best:
This one is all about giving it your all! Some days you'll feel like a superhero, and other days you might feel a little wobbly. That's okay!
"Always doing your best" means trying your hardest, even when things are tough. It's about learning and growing, not being perfect.
Be proud of yourself for the effort you put in, no matter the outcome.
These are just the beginnings! You can use these points as springboards to discuss real-life situations with your child and help them understand how these agreements can make them happier and their friendships stronger.
Comments
Post a Comment